by June Siew | Apr 2, 2025 | Family, Parenting
看完《哪吒之魔童闹海》后,我和孩子有这样一段对话:D: Mummy, 你有哭吗?J: 有咧,那一幕,妈妈抱着哪吒,慢慢地化成精丹的,妈妈眼湿湿的。你呢?D: 我没有咧。 那一刻,我的脑海浮现出一句话:“有得抱,就多抱一些吧。” ✨ 矛盾的爱:独立与依赖之间的拉扯 作为妈妈,我希望你能独立成长,也渴望拥有自己的空间。但我知道,总有一天,你会对我说:“妈,别抱我了。” 有时,我会忍住不给你拥抱,嘴上说着“你要学会独立”,但心里却清楚,那一刻的拥抱是温暖的、连接的、平静的,甚至能修复你那颗受伤的小玻璃心。...
by June Siew | Mar 27, 2025 | Family, Parenting
When I first received Raising Boys by Steve Biddulph as a gift, I was at the start of my motherhood journey. But, honestly, I barely had time to read it between breastfeeding, dealing with poo explosions, recovering from birth, and figuring out how to be a mom. Fast...
by June Siew | Apr 18, 2023 | Self-love
2-3小时间隔喂奶 奶瓶未洗 明天的食料还没准备好 周末亲子活动 明天要带去学校的东西 未完成的工作 等等。。。 父母要完成的事,一箩箩,说也说不完。这倒是只有父母能了解的心声。 以上的必需完成之事清单,已足以让父母暂且把【睡觉】这回事撇開不理。 累了,怎么办? 身体容易疲累,该是缺乏运动。就早点起,去运动吧! 情绪欠佳,该是没有做自己喜欢的事。就早点起,做做自己喜欢的事! 假期休息,别浪费假日。早点起床,出门玩乐吧! 休息/睡觉 简直是浪费时间啊!甚至睡觉被定为懒惰的行为。...
by June Siew | Mar 22, 2023 | Parenting, Self-love
Two weeks ago, saw a sad news about Bill Dean’s passing. Bill is a master trainer who has a big heart and love everyone before he even meet them. He walked the talk by loving us and teaching us what is unconditional love including loving ourselves and our...